Published: July 27, 2010
Advice is one thing that we get every time from people that we know and sometimes people whom we don't know as well. I don't know but I guess the only reason we get so abundantly is because it's free. Each and everyone is self proclaimed advisor on someone else's life. 'Why don't you do that?' 'You should do that' 'Wear this' etc. are just the few example that I can give you at the moment. Studies, jobs, career plans, business, personal affairs and everything you do there will be someone poking up their so called advice whether you asked for it or not. Even me, I am no different from anyone of you out there. I give my so called great 'advices' to my friends and family (be happy if you don't know me).
People love to make decisions for someone else but the funny thing is when they have to make some decisions than they turn around to the same people whom they gave their advice to do the same thing. Human nature I guess we don't trust our own decisions and yet we try to take decisions for someone else. Funny, I never understood and I bet I never will. And now when we are already in this topic than the other thing that surprises me is the fact that when we are shoving our advice to someone else that someone gets so annoyed especially when he/she didn't ask for our valuable advice. He/she will be like 'Mind your business' kind of mood but as soon as the tables are turned and without a second thought we end up playing each other's role. He/she will forget what it was like being shoved loads of unwanted advices and we forget that the advices he/she is giving is all because they care about us just like we care about them. But for me it's already a full stop when it's comes to giving advices. One regretful advice is enough for me to last this lifetime. No matter it might be free make sure that you are fully prepared to take on the consequences after you give an advice to anyone. Humans never admit that they can only blame others for their mistake. And that's the only reason when they turn up to you for an advice for the things they are unsure so that they can have someone to blame if something goes wrong. It's very rare for us to say 'THANK YOU' if it goes good but we never miss a chance to say 'why did you gave me such an advice, it ruined me' . So, make sure that you give an advice only when asked to and always be prepared to face up the result of your actions. And most importantly don't give it randomly just because it's free.
P.S: We human beings don't trust ourselves and can't trust someone else as well!!!!
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